I also frequently think because I am a medical student, my time is more valuable than others, especially those without demanding jobs.At the end of the day, I know that’s my pride talking and I need to let go of that superiority complex.My time is valuable but thinking that my time is more valuable than my partner’s is a potential fuel for a fights.Mistake #2 – Allowing miscommunication (especially via text) to cause fights As a medical student, it’s not practical to see my partner or go on dates multiple times a week.
John is behind the scenes big time despite what can be a grueling residency schedule. he moonlights as a photographer) & he also helps arrange all of my travel as well as a few other tasks.Tip #1 – Schedule protected time for your significant other Protected time with my significant other is probably the most important part of having a successful relationship.It’s so easy to spend time with your partner and at the same time be distracted and stressed about all the studying or work that you need to do.This is random, but when John and I were dating and getting more serious, I actually googled “is it smart to date a medical student? I remember thinking wondering if he would have time for me, if he would be annoyed that I don’t like science or blood, etc.I was skeptical of getting too serious because I didn’t know what to expect!