Women accuse men of being sex-obsessed, thinking with their dicks, objectifying women with a glance.
A man can choose to seek out as many possible outlets for his sexuality or choose to be monogamous but it is seen as a reflection of the man’s values and lifestyle how he chooses to handle this unavoidable part of his nature.
They call women “attention-whores.” They put them down for the number of selfies.
The perceive them to be weak and insecure and even stupid for posting pictures of themselves looking their best and for feeling that the “likes” or “comments” of affirmation would mean something.
Realize also that when someone is having their needs met, they don’t keep looking for more. So men, that means, if you are fulfilling you woman’s need for attention and affirmation, she will not waste her energy looking for it elsewhere.
(Yes, some people may have a personality disorder or some trauma they are working through where they are a bottomless pit of need. Ladies, that means if you are fulfilling your man’s need for sex, variety in sex and excitement, he will not waste his energy looking for it elsewhere. Before everyone starts griping in the comments I’ll clarify that this post is using examples to illustrate part of our nature that is different in men and women and where it might come from.
Because men do not seek attention in these same ways and in fact to get attention in this way might make many of them feel uncomfortable they don’t understand it and so they love to criticize it.
Where you put your attention and energy is a reflection of your values. I’m trying to illustrate some of the subtle differences using exaggerated or extreme examples because I don’t have time to write about every little scenario possible.
Don’t be ridiculous in my comments because you are hungry or bored or looking for a fight.
What do women seek from the outside that makes them feel good? Women like attention and women are wired to seek it.
Attention can be sought out in many ways: fame seeking, selfie-posting, provocative clothing, creating drama, coy flirting, make-up.