Love, as beautiful as it is, can also be scary, and a lot of us keep our guard up until we’re sure he feels a certain way in order to keep from getting hurt.
As the saying goes, before you fall in love, make sure there is someone there to catch you.
So how do you know if a man is truly in love with you?
If he shows these 11 signs, then it’s pretty safe to say he is.
It may not feel good, but it’s a sign that he really sees you, all of you, and cares about you.
(I go into greater depth on this in my article on what no one tells you about being in a good relationship.) Your happiness may be even more important!
This sort of love has nothing to do with how good that person makes you feel about yourself.
The trouble with this is that when you get caught up in trying to figure out if a man loves you, you can no longer be present in the relationship.
Instead of connecting, you are stuck in your own worried thoughts, and those thoughts produce fears and insecurities that ultimately block you from getting the love you want.
He doesn’t speak about the future vaguely; instead, he makes it clear that he envisions a future with you in it.
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