But each Indian family works in its own complicated way (don’t take it personally, I know “we’re like that only”;)).I understand it might be impossible for you to convey this to your parents in as many words.
We are independent and have entered into this profession of our own free will - not a coercive force in sight!
Whenever I ask her anything about this she gives vague replies, urging me to move on and look at the future instead of the past.
I’d expressed intentions of joining Facebook and connecting with her batch mates in the hope of finding out about her past and whether she had sex before marriage. Normally I would tell you to close your eyes, take a deep breath and let it go.
The only way knowing everything about one’s spouse’s past life can help is in tackling nosy outsiders like this friend, eager to spill the beans and laugh as the two of you shred your married life to pieces.
That’s something you have a right to protect yourself against. Then mention to her that, at the same time you don’t want to receive info about her past life from outsiders and look like a fool.