Despite the utter lack of chemistry, when he texted the next morning to go out again, I said yes.Many, many dates later now, I'm glad I didn't dismiss him. If the last dude you met on Hinge spent the night talking about all of your shared connections in a way that suggested he's slept with most of them, he doesn't deserve a second shot at your awesomeness. Yes, he could be a dud, but he could also be really nervous.__On your second attempt, try something a little more fun than going to dinner so there's less pressure on making forced conversation. Even if he's not for you, as long as he's relatively interesting and not a creep, invite him and his buddies out for some Sunday Funday action with your girlfriends.When out on your date, order something relatively – but noticeably – cheap. You’re a person, not a wallet, and can offer a potential partner so much more than paying for a posh steak.Anyone not expecting to pay for their dinner will order something around the same price bracket.