They want to feel a connection with a female because they lack that in real life so they all run to Cam sites and literally pay for it. Fundamentally speaking by definition these nude cam women who masturbates on camera or exploit there bodies sexually online in exchange for money/internet pts or w/e are prostitutes. I've been dating this girl for 5 years and a little over year ago I let her start webcamming from my apartment.
On one hand, they are, for all intents and purposes, prostitutes.
So why should I go back and live in your fantasy world and waste my life again!? I'm also a very sexual person and it provided me with an outlet that didn't involve physical contact with other people.
My boyfriend put it to me like this: Anyone who works for someone else is selling themselves.
I simply NEVER gained anything of confidence talking to Cam-Girls because the subject matter is only sex-talk to arouse men to tip.
I simply got better by getting social with my man-peers as a group.